dude, we will have to catch up tomorrow. Things changed a bit in my situation a few hours after we talked.
I know it's killing you to see your D3 upset. That is just brutal. Maybe stick with texting. This way your W can start prepping her, stop the movie, that type of thing. Might make the handoff go a bit smoother.
re; attactiveness. Getting A Life is the biggest kick in the pants in this area. As soon as I started to go out with a group of friends my self-esteem got such a shot in the arm, it was unbelievable. I really was able to truly detach as I realized pretty quickly that I would have my hands full the second I became single. Realizing there are thousands of women that would kill for a guy like me, (and you ) went a long way towards helping me grab my bootstraps and pull. It's a lot easier to think, I would prefer this not happen but if it does, I'll be okay..., when you really know this to be true. Some things you can't fake. The only way to be genuine in your GAL'ing is to actually GAL. I know you're doing this, I just wish a lot more of the folks on this board would do so as well.
) went a long way towards helping me grab my bootstraps and pull. It's a lot easier to think, I would prefer this not happen but if it does, I'll be okay..., when you really know this to be true. Some things you can't fake. The only way to be genuine in your GAL'ing is to actually GAL. I know you're doing this, I just wish a lot more of the folks on this board would do so as well.