exactly. That is exactly what it is. We go round and round. He wants me to need him and to ask him to do things, but then he can't be depended on to do anything I need or ask or even anything he might think I need or want.
But I'm sticking to my initial thought. I'm not doing anything or saying anything to him about being fed up and ready to be over until after I get back from Colorado- the second time.
