I think my situation also woke up some of my friends not to take their marriages for granted. I wish I would have gotten a wake up call. I'm not sure it would have made a difference. He is the one that cheated, but maybe I could have done some things differently so that he wouldn't have had the desire to stray.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon