Hope, I'm so sorry. We both fought the same amount of time. You are an amazing woman and he will regret losing you when he comes out of his fog. I truly believe they are going through an illness, otherwise, how could they be so nonchalant and throw away a marriage. I've read that he may think he can find happiness with a new person, but until he takes care of himself he will still be unhappy. So the biggest lesson we have to get out of this is to work on ourselves before we can fully move on with our own lives. We do not need the men our Hs have become. We have to believe in ourselves. Believe me, I'm having a very hard time doing that, but I also know that the man my H has become is not someone that could make me happy. Again I'm so sorry, and don't feel alone I have shed my share of tears also. Our marriages meant something to us.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
