changes in attitudes, changes in latitudes

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Get some sleep. Frankly, I dont think the sitch is too complex for DBing, I just really think every sitch is different and you are the only one in your sitch and ultimately it is your goal to be better than you are now (the best person you can be) and that the ideas presented here and in the books are all just guidelines.

In your case, I was a bit worried about the Gambling as it related to pulling it back together before he was dealing with it. You mentioned he was going to GA and ICing. Are you afraid all that is for show or is it just the beginning of the ride?

Not being negative here, just re-assess where he is and it would be good for some ICing on your part, IMHO.

Me too on wishing I wish I would have seen a professional to deal w/me and not relying on my W to try and support me through my personal issues. I also feel for you on the kids. WE ALL DO, TRUST ME it brings a tear to all of us.

Check in tomorrow w/ us, please!
Goodnight