Hey--I'm wondering....did you get angry with your H when he was trying? I guess some context would be good...I've been working my butt off lately to deal with LW and my feelings about last summer. Because of that, I've been pretty much in my little cave. I've explained this to H, that it's b/c I'm taking care of this issue so it's not standing between us. Anyway, now H is sooooo far up my crannies it's making me crazy. Maybe he's feeling a little afraid, but it's making me nutso. Anyway, H taped a show for me b/c I went out for a while, and when I asked him which performer he liked best, he wouldn't tell me b/c he didn't want to ruin the suspense. I wanted to rip his head off...I mean, who is he to decide for ME? I didn't yell or do any of that old stuff, just told him I wouldn't have asked the question if I didn't want to know the answer. I wish he would just focus on his own crap instead of hovering all over me...grrrr.
Thoughts?
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
