OF, thanks as always. Your words certainly have a lot of impact on my thinking. 9 months ago I thought by this time now I'd be strong enough to move on. Here we are over a year later and while I'm stronger my day to day life sucks, I'm exhausted this is not what I want to do for the rest of my life. Even more importantly just the thought of her being with another man and another man in my D's life makes my stomach turn. How can I overcome this feeling?
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>