We filed for Divorce

[bobelina]

Check this out:
In 15 years of marriage she has rarely, I kid you not, said "thank you" to me for much of anything I've ever done for her.
She just said "thank you" in both sentences she just spoke to me... WTF?

Our situations would be friggin' hilarious if they weren't so friggin' heartbreaking.

I, like most of you, I assume, would just love to scream at the top of our lungs so it would sink in and get thru the WSers thick skulls,

"STOP YOUR D**MN WHINING AND GROW THE F**UCK UP !!!

[bobelina]

Ahh, the WSers, "Poor, poor, pitiful me, my life is so terrible I think I'll have an affair..."

A bunch of self-centered, selfish, horse hockey.
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I've been thru the anger/frustration of:
"Why is this happening, why can't we work it out, why are you doing this to me/us?",

To:

Moving into the anger/annoyance/nuisance of:
"Your a f**cking moron, leave me the h*ll alone !!!".

Just my three and half cents worth of venting and ranting.

Thanks again.

[Yoyowife]

Sounds if you are having one of those days also. I'm sorry. Maybe it's the moon.

[bobelina]

Yoyo,
Actually, I'm having a great day !!!
But some of these thoughts have been running around in my head for so long that they picked today to come out.
Maybe it is the moon(?).
I'm actually sitting here laughing my butt off at all this.

[PennyMB]

Bob,

I just had time to read your post...I hadn't thought about the "Infidelity Diet" You are a genious...I also lost 25 pounds in a short period of time. One diet I would have skipped but in one way it did make me loose extra weight. Someone told me I should loose 220lbs(talking about H)and my life would be great. He is gone kinda but hasn't filed. There thought pattern is totally wacked out. I don't htink they know what they want.

Hang in there you have made me laugh....

[Yoyowife]

I lost about 35 pounds on the infidelity diet. I certainly needed to lose those pounds, but not the way I wanted to. I'm with Penny I will probably be much better when I lose about 200 lbs (H).

[bobelina]

Penny,
I'm glad you laughed !
As my kids would say, i'm just being a "Dorkifier" today.
Hmmmm... 220 lbs? Maybe I need to lose 135 more lbs? Hmmmm.....

I'm kinda worried that my wife's "whacked out thought pattern" may have been permanent, hence, D-procedings.

[bobelina]

I think I'm getting credit here that I've not earned...
I believe I snagged the phrase "Infidelity Diet" from one of Yoyo's posts.

[PennyMB]

Just think how skinny we will all be with out all the extra weight....
How old is your W? They just seem to change into this other person and don't even think they have changed...Does that make sense? Some of the things they do and say are just way out there.....

You have been married 15 years. I have been married 25. Its a spot I never ever dreamed I would be in.
Keep up your sense of humor....Laughter is great medicine....

[Yoyowife]

Hmm... can't remember, if you did, I probably heard it from someone else. It's weird that all of our spouses have the same weird symptoms and the ones left behind have the same symptoms. This is one of those cases that unfortunately, it's a small world.