This is his e-mail after our conversation on the phone today. I'm crushed all over again. This is so hard.

Jill,



I am sorry. I am sorry that all of this is happening. You made a comment that you know that I am not willing to work on the marriage, but the more I have thought about this and where I am with everything, I feel that that window has passed for me. I know there are probably aspects of this that I will never be able to explain totally to you…and even if I am able to get all of my thoughts out verbally, I doubt that you will ever understand completely because we are in two different places mentally and emotionally.



I am not going to try to explain any of this via this email; I just want you to know that I am sorry.



I will talk to you on Friday.

How can he just let go like that?

M:29 H:30
Married: 8 years (together 10)
6/14/07- Seperated

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
2 Timothy 1:7