Yep, saw the pics. Looks like it was a nice place to be!

I would say, yes, a R talk is in order b/c nothing seems to be moving. I know I have said over & over again that patience is the key, however, she seems to be just taking it all in stride and maybe thinking "great, this is how I want it to be and I'll just ride this out." Before any R talk, though, you are going to need to figure out what you really want. If roommates is not enough, are you ready to say the D word? You need to really think about what you are willing to live with and what you aren't. You need to know ahead of time what YOU want and what YOU can live with and what your decisions are going to be depending on how she reacts.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10