Cades,

2 maybe 3 months ago that is what she said. She said she has strong feeling for the OM (even though he is married). She has not had sex with him during the last 2 to 3 months. I know this because she has not been over night anywhere. I do not know if she still talks to him 3 to 4 times a day. I have a feeling this has slowed down.
I do agree the time is coming soon that we do need to sit down and find out where we are. If that conversation does lead to a 'Room Mate" then that would probably be a good time to make the statement about OUR time share. I don't want it to come across as a "you hurt me how would you feel if this happed to you" statement. I want it to be a reality statement. I don't think she will like the idea.
We are getting along. But I don't need a room mate. Let me correct that statement. : I would prefer not to have a room mate.

Do you think an R talk is in order? Or do you think the reality shock might be better.


Did ya see my pic's ?


Husband

Last edited by husband; 07/18/07 01:01 AM.

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know