Ellie - thanks for the feedback. You're right on about what's been working. haha sorry you're tired of him.. I forget sometimes that we mostly see the very worst about people's spouses here. There really is a lot of good there too, or I'd be gone.
If I had plenty of money I'd be on a cruise in the tropics right now... But on a serious note, I do still think I would be there. I'd feel a little more secure though - less worried about losing so much financially. I could theoretically move in with either of my parents but not for very long for sanity reasons (I'm talking a week at most). I am putting money aside and my legal service actually just kicked in - there was a 6 month waiting period for Sep/D issues - so I will get that consult scheduled too, good idea.
Filing and forcing any kind of sale is pretty much last on the list of things I'd want to do. If it came to that my guess is that one of us would buy the other out and keep the house... but that's getting way ahead of myself right now I think.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
But on a serious note, I do still think I would be there. I'd feel a little more secure though - less worried about losing so much financially. I could theoretically move in with either of my parents but not for very long for sanity reasons (I'm talking a week at most). I am putting money aside and my legal service actually just kicked in - there was a 6 month waiting period for Sep/D issues - so I will get that consult scheduled too, good idea. 
