Kicking him off the fence

[ourcrisis]

Theoden, I love your post (the long one). There is so much truth to it. Thanks.

LO, You will know when you cannot take this anymore. then you will know it's the time you have given him all you can, and you will feel you are strong enough to give him the ultimatum.

I am now pretty sure my h is in MLC. Lots of MLCers need to hit rock bottom before/if they wake up. My h may be waking up, or not. Hopefully your h will wake up before you move on.

Take care.