Yes your right, but of course I'm not the one to point it out to her. Somehow I figure it wouldn't go over well. I try to get a dear friend to "help her figure things out". However, I don't try to tell her what to say, she is quite knowledgeable of the whole scenario(has walk in these shoes before W did). From what I can tell the friend was quite direct. The question is, was it enough?
I hope W figures things out and changes before she put the kids and I through real trials. Personally I don't know how I would respond if we were to go half way down that path and then have her turn back towards us. Talk about trust and hurt issues.
