You may be getting a bit obsessive. Something for the nerves may be in order. You are analyzing every tidbit of her behavior which is going to drive you nuts. This isn't going to be solved today. Or tomorrow. Give yourself a break from it. There's no button you can push, switch you can throw, or statement you can make that will make this go away right now. This game goes for four complete quarters, and you've just started. Don't burn yourself out. This chasing behavior will make it worse. If you have to take a valium, get one. You're in danger of making things worse by obsessing. This has to be thought out and done rationally, not with emotions, so find a way to cool your jets and calm down.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
