Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[mkultra]

I will see my In Laws this week. They live cross country. It is odd to lose a second set of parents. They are still Grandma and Grandpa, but it is so hard on me. MY MIL and I used to talk twice per week, now she cries each time. It is too hard for me to hear the pessimism all the time. She says, "I can't believe this is happening. I know things will never be the same between us now."

I have to say, "Oh, it will be fine. Don't worry."
So why has he announced to everyone how decided he is? Am I some awful wife that he has to make such a rapid declaration? What happened to, "We are having marital problems right now." It went straight to, "I can't be with someone I do not love. I am never going back." He repeats this over and over to everyone. It is like hate.