First....I know what you are going through....the emotions must be overwhelming. If your H wants to go through with a D, then you have to see it as that. But I want to tell you, as many more will say after I post here, that you will be OK in the end. Don't hold out hope for the M anymore - it will consume you. But instead hold out hope that you are going to make it through this. We all are. I know you want to hear something different, but you also need to be ready for whatever comes your way, OK?
I hope that these words will give you comfort. We are all here to support you, we support each other. And while we are all trying to work on our M's......we also need to work on ourselves. You need to take care of you.
When you go to counseling...be open. It's OK to hurt, and cry, just be you. I know how much it hurts for you right now....trust me, I know. I am sorry that you are going through more of the "bad" stuff.
You will get through this.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
