Basically dark, eh? Part of me thinks that is a very wise paln and the other part of me screams "no! I'll be forgotten!!"
That's funny about not wanting to exhaust your supply of friends/activities. I can relate.
You're handling this all very well. No matter what, you will be fine.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing