here's a question. our 10th anniversary is coming up in october. obviously not something he's probably thinking much about, but I am. I'm still hoping we'll be in a place to celebrate together. if not, I am doing something. I have to, I can't just sit around on that day. So I've decided to do the vegas thing. I have never been as an adult, so would be a fun long weekend, and its something I could turn into a H and me thing if we are in a good place, or could make it into a girls getaway if we aren't.
the problem lies in child care. I am tempted to ask H what he has put in for vacation time. he always takes this week off, but not sure if he bothered to this year. should I give him a heads up? or is that just crazy at this point? because obviously I'd either like him to be able to join me, or if not, I'd need him to watch the kids while I go.
wwyd? do I bring it up now, or should I hold off? I think I'm leaning toward just asking what time he's scheduled off right now and leaving it at that, no more details. how does that sound?
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
