Also, regarding when she calls tonite: I have decided to really throw her for a loop. See, I had this vision: I imagined her calling here and encountering a surly and grumpy husband. At the end of the call, she would no doubt hang-up and tell her lover, "Boy, is he pissed!!" And he would respond, "Good!" (remember, I am a lousy husband and she should divorce me ASAP). OK, imagine this. Instead of me being surly and grumpy, I am cheerful and upbeat. What in the world would she say to him then? She will be really thrown off. I am chuckling to myself thinking about it... I will tell her that we are all having a great time. She will be the one missing out! This is textbook DBing strategy, and I will put it into place. I will do the opposite of what comes naturally.
Now you are being a "Wise" one.
But now here is where you are slipping I know it's hard. But your mind puts things into place that you don't know. But you think them so it becomes real. YOU DON"T KNOW she is going to shower with him.
Welcome to my nightmare
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
