I got to thinking about it because there was some guy crying about not getting any from his breastfeeding wife and I wondered if H were writing about our SL what he would say. The guy on the forum was actively turned down (unheard of in our house) but I suppose that my H could say,
I found that your describing the posters message as some guy crying about not "getting any" kind of insulting.
While being turned down never happens to your husband I would expect that someone in your position would have a bit more sympathy for another who is trying to get their own sexual needs met in a healthy way.