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Did she say that directly? No. Did she say I should work on opening up, reaching out to people, fitting in better - Yes.



Umm.. that might not be a bad thing. From one viewpoint, sounds like maybe she's tryinng to help you get along with your husband better.

(PS: I dont get the whole "i love you" thing to your mother in law, but maybe it's a female thing ;\) )



PPS: the whole "best he could" thing is garbage. pffft.. obviously, he's not eve trying now.

Actually.. have you SAID that to her?
have you said that you went to the MB weekend, they said to do the 15 hours a week ,and he didnt even try?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle