Can I get your thoughts on something - do I say anything about any of this to H tonight?? That I'm figuring out what to do to take better care of myself? Or just let it go for now?

I apologized this morning for the way I addressed some of it last night.. maybe that's enough. I dunno it just seems wrong to ignore the whole conversation like it never happened - more of the same, more of avoiding conflict and difficult conversations.

I'm just not sure.

I also have no doubt he plans to continue hanging out with OW/PW since he sees nothing wrong with it once again. Do I just ignore it until MC and/or until I figure out what to do? I hate to continue playing stupid or acting like it's ok when it isn't, but it seems sort of pointless to keep repeating myself too.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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