Ponygirl, I think maybe the reason he acted the way he did was because he was not positive that is what he wanted, and where he wanted to be. I do not believe anything halfhearted can have good results. It is too bad the weekend did not go as you planned, or hoped, but I am glad you still found it beneficial. Are the two of you doing the follow-up meetings? Maybe after your husband processes the info from the Retrouvaille weekend, he will be better able to reach out at the weekly meetings. I was thinking of and praying for you all weekend.
There is always hope if I'm responsible for my own behavior.
