OK, that makes sense. Let me ask you this then, if the OM isn't a deal breaker for you, why not continue counselling regardless? Is there a better chance for your W to open up and be honest in C or out?
I don't think there's a definate answer, just something to consider.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
