Steel (sorry, refering to another guy as "Box" sorta bothers me ),
I might be confused but it sounds like if you're wife is still involved with the OM, it's over for you. No more DBing, do not pass go, go to court and file.
If so, I think you need to decide how much uncertainty you can stand. If you're willing to grit your teeth and bear with your W's rollercoaster of emotions, hang in there. If not, maybe a confrontation is in order. I don't know if that's true DBing, but, again, it does seem as if the OM is still around, you're done.
Hope that helps and I'll chew on this a bit more. It's a pretty sticky question.
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
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