..as you leave, you get to launch the biggest sh*t-storm in his miserable life -- exposing the affair and losing you.
I am quite certain this is a big part of why he hasn't left yet. He KNOWS that people will judge him and his life will fall apart more than it already has.. At that time, he can't deny and pretend any longer. The truth will be known.
I like this perspective. It does make me feel more powerful. I could scream about his infidelity from the rooftops. "I've got a secret. Your secret. Why do you keeping pi$$ing me off? I could really burn you, H". That MIGHT make me look like a scorned woman gone a bit off the deep end but, people would understand, right?? Ok.. not going to do it but.. hmmmm... more power than I thought.. Thanks Theo.
Originally Posted By: theoden
..we know, deep down, that the kind of people we want to be are not the kind of people that would allow an affair to go on indefinitely without some serious boundaries and some serious ultimatums.
Very, very true statement... Don't know how much more of the lies, hurtfulness and downright wickedness that I can take.
