I know it is probably nothing at all, just making my stomach turn. I will get over it, and no I won't confront either one of them about it, because I do realize that would make our situation that much worse.
Well look at it this way, you don't have enough facts to even make a reasonable assumption and even if you did there's nothing you can do about it. So remove it from your mind, I know a hell of a lot harder to do than say. But you have to for your own sanity.
Now another way to look at it, what if having some type of EA/PA is what it's going to take for her to really realize that you are the person she wants. If that's the case then who are you to argue or get upset by it? This is a question that I really have turned over a lot in my head and ultimately I came to the conclusion if that's what it takes I can't get upset by it because my goal would be met too.
Now go have fun with those kids on the beach and quit thinking about all this [censored]!!!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
