I agree with dry_heat. To put a time table on her coming back will just upset you when it doesn't happen. You need to give her time to sort thru her feelings. We all want your spouses home yesterday but that's not going to happen. It took awhile to get to the place we're in it's going to take awhile to get back to a good place. It's hard I know but if we want our marriages to work we have to let our spouses take the time they need to figure things out. And in that time we can better ourselves and figure out what it is we need/want.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07