We all go through the same thing, your going to feel pulled back and forth and up and down, but that is just her thinking it through, and if she is thinking it through then there are unanswered questions. As long as there are unanswered questions, that means doubt about leaving. Let her think, you asked nicely if she needed to talk and it sounds like she needs the space and maybe her friend to lend an ear. I know the person I want to speak with is my W about our issues, but I just don't think she would all to receptive, hehe. So just keep the PMA and move forward!
