I know how you feel. But I wish no physical harm to the OM. I would just like to put him on the spot. Let him Know I know what he has done. Complement him on how proud he must be seducing an over weight middle aged married woman. How proud his wife and kids must be. Let him know his father would be proud. No yelling just point out my observations
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know