my wife /my room mate

[Dr LOve]

Oh sara,

I am not going to do it yet. But.... some day.

Husband

[JAK58]

Husband,

And in another month you will be so detached that you won't even care to do that. All he will be is gum on the bottom of your shoes that gets scraped off for someone else to step on.

JAK

[Sara]

Husband,

I've read so many threads that they are all getting mixed up in my head. Is your wife the one with the bearded, dirty OM?

[Dr LOve]

No she is with the washed up MARRIED Coast guards man. Who I used to beat up in high school.

[saffie]

I STILL want to know what went through the OW's mind in my sitch. I STILL think about what I would like to do to her but I just keep pushing those pins in my Cabbage Patch Doll, (with brown eyes and brown hair!!)

One day I hope to move beyond that......... I can only wish at present

Saffie

[theoden]

I'll even WEAR a bikini if I am allowed to visit Theo. Doesn't slurping generally go with a bikini?

Saffie, you are welcome anytime. ;-)

--Theoden

[chicki]

I no longer analize anything anymore. I use disect every word H said. I use think about what OW has that I don't. Mostly physically b/c she is my opposite in that sense. She is way taller w/ long legs,but at our family reunion there was a freind of one of my cousins daughter there & D10 toldme OW looks like her. I said really??? With that nose?? D10 laughed yes!!!

I just dont let it get to me anymore. I know what I have to offer & know that (like people tell me) H will be sorry someday.
Not to sound conceded,but I really like the person I have become. So there is many positives that came from my H's affair after all!!!

[Dr LOve]

Safie,

I know how you feel. But I wish no physical harm to the OM. I would just like to put him on the spot. Let him Know I know what he has done. Complement him on how proud he must be seducing an over weight middle aged married woman. How proud his wife and kids must be. Let him know his father would be proud. No yelling just point out my observations

Husband

[chicki]

H,

I don't think the OW/OM will see it as bing put on the spot. They really do see it as you being the weaker person to even go there as far as to call them in the first place. This is what is meant when we say our SO then join forces everytime us(LBS) attempt in anyway to contact the OP.

I simply willnot waste my time and energy. I am not even remotley tempted to call anymore. It gives them all the power back.

[Dr LOve]

Chicki,

Agreed,

Husband