I no longer analize anything anymore. I use disect every word H said. I use think about what OW has that I don't. Mostly physically b/c she is my opposite in that sense. She is way taller w/ long legs,but at our family reunion there was a freind of one of my cousins daughter there & D10 toldme OW looks like her. I said really??? With that nose?? D10 laughed yes!!!

I just dont let it get to me anymore. I know what I have to offer & know that (like people tell me) H will be sorry someday.
Not to sound conceded,but I really like the person I have become. So there is many positives that came from my H's affair after all!!!