Thanks Nop - you are probably right on the money. I got to thinking about it because there was some guy crying about not getting any from his breastfeeding wife and I wondered if H were writing about our SL what he would say. The guy on the forum was actively turned down (unheard of in our house) but I suppose that my H could say, "My W used to be so concerned about our SL, she used to touch me all the time and want to talk about it, now she just doesn't seem to care, she never initiates, doesn't kiss me, hardly ever says "I love you" first either." Of course I have my reasons but are they getting me any? Obviously I need to restart a thread but since this is Cemar's thread - remember Cemar there is always another side to this.

Karen