It's ok to set your self goals. Just let them be flexible - see how it goes and don't be too disheartened if things take longer.

Patience and babay steps are words you will hear frequently on here my friend.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength