Karen wrote: "wouldn't it be funny if he managed to ignore all that and now thinks I'm not interested because I'm not pushing the issue. "

Karen's hubby thinks; "Well, I don't hear Karen complaining about the sex anymore, I guess everything is okay."

That would be a standard script for most guys. I think you should consider letting him know it is still an issue with you, and that it will continue to be, whether or not you are actively talking about it.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.