Wow - some of the stories on that forum make me sad. Some of these fellas are seriously misinformed about women in general. I think there is some good information on there.
Funny thing about my H - he is not a NG, he is clearly the leader in our household, clearly inspires my sexual interest in him due to his leadership but...doesn't initiate, doesn't take the lead sexually, doesn't seem to care. I often wonder if he thinks I don't initiate because I'm not interested. I don't initiate because I'm tired of being the leader in the bedroom. I have begged, pleaded, gotten angry, negotiated, flirted, read a million books over the last few years - wouldn't it be funny if he managed to ignore all that and now thinks I'm not interested because I'm not pushing the issue.
