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Nope - you're making excuses to stay comfortable.

You step out of your comfort zone.

You call them and say -- here's the deal. I'm really needing to talk to someone but won't be able to pay today because I don't get paid till ___. Is it possible to be seen and billed instead of having to pay at the session?


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Oh..this doc won't defer. As her receptionist puts it..."we already have to wait on payment from the insurance". So basically I'm stuck for at least 2 weeks.


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Have you called today?


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No, that was a couple of weeks ago when I was negative in my banking account. So I had to cancel my appointment then. Once my car is payed off things won't be so bad, but that's not until January.

I just got a nasty letter from her demanding an increase in child support. She wants $500 more a month then I already give her when I only make $200 more a month then she does. I told her I'd see her in court.


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don't talk to her anymore.

There's no reason to discuss anything if it's not related to visitation right now.

Did you call your lawyer?


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No, just waiting on her paperwork which will go to my lawyer anyway.


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Originally Posted By: NMHurting
Oh..this doc won't defer. As her receptionist puts it..."we already have to wait on payment from the insurance". So basically I'm stuck for at least 2 weeks.


Bullcrap.

Then you call your insurance company and explain to them the need to get off their asses RIGHT NOW because they are holding up your therapy and that is UNACCEPTABLE.

You can also tell that receptionist - hell, I'd love to do it for you, but you can tell her uppity ass that while it's great life's all hunky flippin dory for her, some people need help with problems larger than chipping a nail and she needs to either make you an appointment now or have the doctor give you an immediate referral.

It's not about YOU, if you want to look at it that way.

You're taking care of your kids' father.

So DO it.

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Originally Posted By: NMHurting
No, that was a couple of weeks ago when I was negative in my banking account. So I had to cancel my appointment then. Once my car is payed off things won't be so bad, but that's not until January.

I just got a nasty letter from her demanding an increase in child support. She wants $500 more a month then I already give her when I only make $200 more a month then she does. I told her I'd see her in court.


Good response.

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Originally Posted By: NMHurting
No, that was a couple of weeks ago when I was negative in my banking account. So I had to cancel my appointment then. Once my car is payed off things won't be so bad, but that's not until January.

I just got a nasty letter from her demanding an increase in child support. She wants $500 more a month then I already give her when I only make $200 more a month then she does. I told her I'd see her in court.


Good response.

Either that or 'Bite me!'

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