Yes, it does suck. But normal people live through it. We'll all make it through regardless of the outcome.
I don't know if you were on here when "Cherishher" was. He posted A LOT and obviously wanted his marriage to work as much as any of us here.
He had quite a story. His wife started getting on the board too and defending her position. She ended up running off with another man on this board. He pops in every once in a while now and says he's doing great.