Yesterday was supposedly her appointment for the annulment, and it's been two days since we have spoken...right now I consider that a positive. In fact, I kind of hope she doesn't contact me for a while yet, as I am trying to be hopeful that in time she will do some work of her own and let go of her anger.
I am on step 4 of DR today. Been trying to relax with my coffee and highlighter, taking my time through the book. There are so many common sense points of relating to each other that we have both forgotten about! Thought we were doing so much so right until reading the book! The crazy thing is that she says she has done all she can and that she has no more in her to give. If she could only read the book with an open mind! I won't even bring it up until goal #3 is achieved though...Have written out my goals as follows, tell me whatcha'll think:
1) For her to contact me just to ask how I am-nothing more. 2) For her to speak to me without anger in her voice 3) For her to return home by Aug. 1st
In the meantime I have been getting back to the activities I enjoy and using extra time to get some of the other things done I have been letting go lately. Any thoughts?
