Hey mark,

There are different definitions on dating. I am not going to cheat on my wife. At least not physically. It is extremely hard not to get into an EA. I have danced with the devil on that front. But I did not dive in. I just sat on the edge. I am out of it now. I know my W is too comfortable with me. So I have been going out. I have not taken a specific woman anywhere yet but it is not out of the question. I want to go dancing. My Wife does not want to. Soooo if the opportunity comes up I will ask a female to go DANCING with me. (Horizontal not vertical). No sex. This book is good but you have to pick a chose with it. I am only 1/2 way through it. I prefer to be the one chased / pursued. My son is 10. I figure I have 8 years at the most to deal with this.
Good luck mark. We all played the games. We all snooped, put pictures out, and gave gifts. But works the best so far for me was doing nothing that I didn't want to do. If I want to give a gift it's ok but just because I want to not because I love her. Just Like I would gives a gift to a coworker.


Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know