Your W is finding that nobody, bur her, thinks she is making good decisions about OM. My W got the same lesson.
Yes, but unfortunately i feel like this just makes them cling to each other more. Since no one wants to hear about their 'undying love'.
So my wife is supposed to come home today/tonight. No idea when. I feel a little down, simply because i'm conflicted, I'm angry and disgusted that she would act like this, and flaunt this relationship in front of the father of her children and the man she married 7 years ago. Its disgusting. At the same time i have feelings for her based on the person she is underneath all of this. I also want more than anything to keep my family together for my childrens sake.
Either way, i hear the advice here. And i know it deep in my heart. I need to live a life that I am happy with ALONE. And then if things change, i may let her join me in my life. I have not been pursuing, but i have been making myself too available. And thats because i've been weak. I plan on stopping that ASAP. It should be easy this week, because i don't even want to see her right now. I feel sick just thinking about her coming home.
