tyler....good advice from whatisis.....take the time out now and just think. Can you get away?

As for separation, my L told me that the only reason to file for separation is if you think there is a chance at reconciliation. Otherwise, as Jeff223 told me, separation is the same as D..it has all the 'ill's', except YOU are stuck, bound, by still being M'd. I guess this comes down to the question that everyone asks themselves:
-is it over?
-am I standing for my M too long?
-will starting the D or S process push our W's in one direction or the other?

It's tough tyler...I am there now...I am thinking about the ultimate DB No-No....the LBS becomes the WAW.

Just take a time out...for now...stop....

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;