and you are right, snooping tends to backfire. I didn't, btw. I feel really good about that...drove to therapy and back and didn't look at anything. yay me!
was a really good session, came home in a great mood, chatted with H a bit, deflected his incessant questions about therapy and told him I didn't want to talk about it, that it was between me and my therapist pretty much. he pushed a lot, started to pick a bit of a fight about it, and I didn't bite. he's just irritated that I have good sessions and get something out of therapy, whereas he tends to have bad sessions (his words). of course he has bad sessions...he's a freaking narcisist who puts no work into it and takes little or no responsibility for anything. (no I didn't tell him that)
off to the mall with a friend. see, busy busy busy!
eta, I agree, 25mlc has been very helpful...I'm so glad I found this site!
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
