Well, first thread locked. I believe Heimlich did the honors. I feel like I have come a long way since my first post on my situation and I hope that things continue to improve and when I write my next title for my thread it will be a little more optimistic and maybe even a success story. But that is just my unrealistic optimism shining through.
She has not talked more about moving out. Actually she told me that she would like to move our exercise equipment out of storage and into our condo. So I am going to make arrangements to do that this weekend. And she spent all day yesterday unpacking her clothes and things that had been in boxes since we moved in (over a month now). I think it is a good sign because seeing all of her stuff in boxes and bags made me realize that it would not take much for her to move out. Heck, she was already packed. But her unpacking in the condo seems like she is dropping anchor and I take that as a symbol (however small that it may be) that she wants to stay or at least is not quite ready to move out.
Like I said, I feel like we are at that point where we are close to making things better, or things taking a turn for the worse. I plan on making sure that I do not pressure her into anything. I didn't even make a big deal of her unpacking, just said that it looked good in her closet that everything was organized. Basically, the ball is in her court to do what she wants with it. The small positive things recently seem to be adding up lately, but like I said before, I am waiting for the left hook that is going to knock me back, but it won't be as devastating because I am expecting it.
