Aye Yoyo, I've been reading Proverbs again, so relavant.
(All of you not into the Bible, well, maybe give it another chance, kinda amazing the amount of DB stuff in there, who would have known?.
(A couple other good ones: "Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed" by Gary Chapman
Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs
I know, I know, some of you aren't comfortable with the Faith part of this, but maybe still give'em a chance. They are a different angle on our struggles. They've very helpful for me).
Yoyo, When the nitemare started, our oldest said she didn't want to live with her Mom if we split up. She said it again on Sun. This "Poisoning of the Well" came up when I took the kids to lunch Sun. Then again I expected it to happen. Patience, grasshopper. I listened. Reassured my kids things would work out for the best for everyone.
I've secured a place to live, Aug 1. Moved my monies around etc. Back in Apr '06 I had moved the monies as she was spending it, her checks from restaurant were boucing, she was spending our money to float the restaurant and the girl from the restaurant. Then she took a charge account out for the restaurant. Finally got the money out of the restaurant recently to cover that. When I moved my money she was livid. Two weeks and counting. Kids and I can move away from this chaos to a better life. Last nite she left to pick up her sisters drunk boyfriend from the bar. He has no drivers license, 5 kids 4 mothers, etc. You get the picture. About MidNite she said to me, as she was leaving, as I was in the garage reading some posts, 'You probably don't care but I have to go pick up XYZ from the bar". She's right, I don't care. Just one more thing to distance my kids and I from.
