You are soooo right. You do not have to say anything bad. Our S actions WILL speak louder than words. Kids are not stupid. Trust me from past experience. I even made up excuses to my D's why their "mommy" could not see them tonight. I made them feel better and when they grew up they found out the truth .
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know