I had hoped that one day you would realize what you have. No, I am not relieved-I am sad, scared,angry and frustrated. I am especially frustrated because I view the marriage as VERY saveable.
Wow welcome to my marriage! I don't think 2 months is long enough depending on what is happening during that time. I set no time limit with my H as long as I know he is thinking and I'm okay waiting. If I find out there is an A or that he is partying all the time I think I'll set a time limit. We both agreed to no dating, we are still married rules. He said he needed space to think. Thinking does not include sleeping with other people.
Isn't it frustrating to know how saveable the marriage is and what good work you could do with it but not be able to do it!
Soooooo frustrating!! I wish he would agree to not date, but he said "How am I supposed to be sure that I want *you* if I don't go out with other people?" Sheesh- it's not like we were 16 year old virgins when we got together! *sigh*
Today is his birthday. First time in 12 years I won't be helping him celebrate it.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
