I've been struggling with asking my W to do things. Sadly, I think our efforts to do things together are seen as pressure. While you should try to do things together, the way you ask is critical I think. Instead of "What movie would you like to see this weekend" maybe you say on Thursday/Friday, "I'm thinking of going to a movie tomorrow, would you like to join me." From there, you can play dinner by ear, depending on the show time.

Make sense?

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.