But remember, the only thing YOU can control is you. So you decide to fake it and be happy.
Go dark on dealing with her. No need to talk to her unless it relates to the kids.
Now, as far as custody - do you have your own lawyer? Talk to him about rights - hers and yours. Is your state a no fault state? If not, her relationship with om would be a help to you regarding custody. I know you probably don't want to fight dirty but these are your kids and you have every right to have them as well.
Divorce doesn't HAVE to be bitter and hateful - and shouldn't be when kids are involved ....
Not saying it's easy.
I'm sorry you're struggling. Do you have someone you can talk to?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
